FEMININE FLAIRS: APPRECIATION

By Bukky Idowu

This word is lacking in most affairs, and the women folks are the worse culprit. The word sounds so familiar, but we just don’t know how to use it.

Most ladies come about the right guys but these guys slip off their fingers because they lack appreciative words or attitude.

When a guy is caring and loving I don’t think we should act weird with him. I know of

a friend who has never bought a single gift for her spouse. Right from their courtship days, it has always been the husband buying her gifts and presents. She would not remember his birthday or initiate celebration during his promotions or achievements. As time went on, the guy gradually withdrew his care. That was when she realised her folly.

Oh common, what does a man want in us that we can not offer. Even if a man is not caring enough you can initiate it. Teach him how to give by giving him.  We need to work on our attitude. Yeah! Do you hear me, “attitude” and that is 100% of us without leaving a thing behind

If your man loves you sincerely and takes proper care of you, you are lucky. Many ladies out there are not that lucky. Reciprocate by showering him with love and affection. Appreciate him with gifts and presents. Celebrate him, and you will realise that love will never depart from your home.                                             

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